Here's to love. May we all want it, get it, keep it, protect it, regard it, always. I had a conversation with my mother a few days ago - she talked about her first love. She was 15 or so at the time it happened, and has not forgotten a thing, 65 years later. Love does not allow us to forget.
I resolve to not let it be. January was not as bad as it could be, or used to be in the past. It could be the mild winter, or my new boots, or the fact that I got to do something I have not been able to do for 2 decades - make a dance, with dancers. Yes, that must be it. It made me happy, but it also makes spending time in a quiet little shop a lot more challenging.
This is a different version of the music I used - it's much slower. When G.G. was younger he played it with a youthful vigor and dynamic that I still love.
I'm almost done reading Blindness by J. Saramago, and as I read I realize that the imaginary chaos and sense of doom in the book must be what people in Haiti are experiencing for real, now, and for a long time to come. For them life as they knew it has come to an end, and the future is even scarier. I'm not sure yet how it all ends in the book, but when I read how they manage eventually to celebrate the very simplest things in life, precious, no longer taken for granted - such as a slow and tender toast of a crystal glass filled with fresh water, a quickly diminishing commodity, to the even rarer one of human kindness - I wonder how we lose track of these elements in our daily lives, and what price we pay for this neglect.
This week I feel lucky to cope with whatever life throws at me, in light of the tragic events in Haiti - everything fades in comparison, and the little, petty life issues we are dealing with here seem not to matter much in the greater scheme of things.
So when my kid needs assistance applying to universities, or money matters bog me down, and the ceiling in my kitchen crumbles, or any other small daily aches and pains bother me, all I need to do is shift my gaze to that unfortunate place, to know I am lucky.
Many people talk of late about their heartaches, these days many feel troubled by matters of relationships, and here are a couple of songs that can sum it all up pretty good:
Peter Gabriel and Robert Lepage in Come Talk To Me:
This is the second time I post about an artist I admire, and shortly after they die. (No, I don't think it's deadly to be on my blog, I don't have such grandiose ideas). Lhasa De Sella died of breast cancer at age 37. What a dreadful thing to hear this morning on my school run with the kids. It made me tear up. I was looking forward to hearing more music from her. I love her voice. I did not know about her illness. It makes me sad. Another beautiful voice lost to the world.
This young aspiring journalist interviewed me (ok, so what if she's only 14) as her chosen subject for a project about immigrants. She later said I am the most interesting woman in Toronto. How can one refuse to be that? I just wish I knew what it was that I said that made her think that. I would use it to impress more people. Here's a photo she took of me after the interview: I guess I should have made an attempt at clearing my desk...
Happy holidays everyone. I've had busy couple of days, which I love, and I'm very happy to have such a devoted group of customers who make a point of thinking about me at this busy time of year, coming to see me and spend some quality time and hard-earned money. Thank you. This year has been challenging so perhaps it was a blessing that it passed so quickly. A new era is beginning next week. The future has arrived. Lets hope it's not as dismal as si-fi movies have been predicting for decades, that in fact we would be able to find the quiet simplicity which can make life more enjoyable. Here's something worth a toast. Lechayim!
Joseph Aboud Jacket, hand knitted green sweater, white shirt to die for (details you wouldn't believe), silk bow tie, Ecco shoes, cuffed tailored wool gray pants, Fornazzetti pocket square, and that hat to finish it off. Wear this combination and you're worth being featured in the Sartorialist blog...
Motorcycle jacket with unique beaded details and very special buttons, J. Lindberg black skinny jeans, wool sweater crazy Argyle-like in pink and gray. Embroidered white shirt, funky cotton jacket with a fun lining, classy and timeless wool scarf, belt buckle for the holidays.
The shop is loaded with such great things. Yesterday a lovely woman came to do her xmas shopping for her son, and bought a beautiful Yamamoto shirt, a couple of Lacost shirts, and some other items. I love when that happens. It reaffirms my belief in what I do. Here are some examples of what I have in stock - whoever gets these would be making a wise purchase: Fabulous Gocci black formal suit (size 42 tall) Harley Davidson black leather authentic jacket (XXL) Green suade (Robin Hood green) Valentino shoes - fun and whimsical. Oakley briefcase, olive green heavy duty nylon, with a removable shoulder strap and pouches. Burberry trench coat Etro raincoat The North Face winter jacket Classic silk house robe Silk men's kimono Etro ties
Things you can stumble upon when idly surfing the net, such as this beauty - observation, exploration and admiration of the human walk, by Ryan Larkin (yes, the subject of the Oscar winning film 'Ryan').
I forgot about him completely. His songs were quite popular back home in the old days. I like him better as a jazz pianist and a poet, in fact, than as a singer. This one is quite lovely and light:
Here's another fun song of his (originally sung quite badly as a duet with Catherine Deneuve) done to perfection by Stacy Kent (a new one for me):
This young woman is a great singer. She's going places, I'm sure. Last week she opened for Sophie Milman at Massey Hall. She was great, and her guitarist/husband really good. It was such a pleasant surprise. Click on the post title to go to her site.
But I don't mind it. These old songs, old B&W films, bigger than life melodramas, big bands playing swing music - they do it for me in a way I can't explain. They make me swing.
The key to education is the experience of beauty. Friedrich Schiller
If we do not maintain justice, justice will not maintain us. Francis Bacon
In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play. Friedrich Nietzsche
Any idiot can face a crisis - it's day to day living that wears you out. Anton Chekhov
To achieve harmony in bad taste, is the height of elegance. Jean Genet
The best things in life are silly. Scott Adams
A person with a so-called character is often a simple piece of
mechanism, possessing only one point of view for the extremely
complicated relationships of life. August Strindberg
There are no secrets that time does not reveal. Jean Racine
It is not who is right, but what is right, that is of importance.Thomas Huxley
To find fault is easy; to do better may be difficult. Plutarch
Alas, after a certain age every man is responsible for his face. Albert Camus
Each day provides its own gifts. Marcus Aurelius
It is rare that one can see in a little boy the promise of a man, but
one can almost always see in a little girl the threat of a woman.
Alexandre Dumas
Ice cream is exquisite - what a pity it isn't illegal. Voltaire
Middle age is when you still believe you'll feel better in the morning. Bob Hope
If women ran the world we wouldn't have wars, just intense negotiations every 28 days. Robin Williams
I would never die for my beliefs because I might be wrong. Bertrand Russell